hi guys,
for me life is sucking,its giving me a very bad time duno what to do
how to solve my problems????
now-a-days i am facing a very g8 difficulty
->i can't concentrate on the work i do
->i feel sleepy quite often
->i sit dippressed whenever i sit for atleast 5min,
i want myself to be the same old with th same enthu i had before
->also i get nervous even when speak t my friends
->i cant present myself properly
previously i had lots of things that i wanted to do in life
but now i feel that ewverything is a waste because i itself am a waste
please tell me how to rebuilt my confidence
i want to have some thing +ve to be there for me
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hey please do send me your views
the suggestions from adarsh are good once . i think u are thinking of some other matters. if so dont go for bothering more about some other matters .
if you are really nervous some time take a long breath it will give a relief , try it , i use this trick ...
i will like to know the result ..
Thats a gud news!!!! sorry for saying that as i am ur DUSHMAN.
first things first..
-> u dont concentrate when u r not intrested! which u have to build up urself! v normally concentrate on alot of things a day apart from subjects it can b a movie,game,messaging and belive it or not even when u have a bad nighmare there are cases u might have got up suddenly which is because u had concentrated alot on it....in general concentration is a state when ur brain is ready to accept things faster....
-> sleepy....obivously when ur brain aint ready to take anything inside it means its either tired very badly or not in a position to concentrate hence take rest...people who sleep alot live cool alot(like me ;-))
->depressd....now thats y ur brain is not ready to take in coz u get depressed!!! depression is always caused by assumptions (my thumb rule)..v expect alot dream alot thats human tendency and belive me its the only reason behind the development in mankind in terms science,art& technology...however our expectations and dreams have to be handled and nutured very carefully and wisely..dont assume things..if things are really going bad just neglect it...belive me sindu i m puttin these words hoping it just makes some sense to u and make u feel better...frankly to put it in my words these problems are purely psychological...ya i knw my view is kind of rude....
->nervous....my god !!!! u r so confident and wild when u r nervous then what wud be our case if u werent? i think is a fully invalid claim of urs...
->present...presentation are of basically of 2 types one formal the other informal....
formal are those where u have to do bit of homework...like sme practice..and top of all..get prepard for the worst response so that u dont ruine ur image and prestige....informal is when u do it among people u knw... like family,friends and of course if the situation and evironment is light and humorous...which does not need any preparation...just open talk from ur heart...coz people are liked more dont think and talk and who talk openly...and ofcourse along with a huge smile on ur face...
frankly sin i dont knw how u were before..but what i knw for certain is ur gud at presentation and of course sleeping and are always active when awake...confidence is purely upto u...u gotta built it up urself..and belive me no one on this earth is a waste(except 4 me ;-)...just kidding!).god has plans for each of us...we all have purpose...so all u have to do is realize it....
all the best
sorry 4 keeping my comment bit long..
why r u depressed-life is a challenge-well you r one of the bravest.I am seeing a blog from a girl that too from kasargod for the first time-that makes a real difference-a girl so powerful in mind needn't have to worry-well i am adarsh's new online friend-am from kasargod.please visit my blog and kindly leave suggestions to improve my blog or any key ideas to write abt
take care
bye
I can understand what you are currently going through right now... I graduated from Michigan State University in May 2004 and my life seems to have gone down hill ever since... A lot of promises broken and a lot of dreams put on ice. I hope I can get them back and I hope that you can too!
Please check out and comment on my blog.
Thank you,
Lindsey
think you are happy with comments you dont want to post new postings . when ever i click on your link i will have some expectation that atleast this time you would have put some new posting. send that doshman out from there and put some posting on your blog .
think you are happy with comments you dont want to post new postings . when ever i click on your link i will have some expectation that atleast this time you would have put some new posting. send that doshman out from there and put some posting on your blog .
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